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First one must realize that no matter what he or she cannot run away from problems. It is a part and parcel of life and has to be accepted whether one desires or not.

Problems are what you create. It grows when you give importance to it. Donot brood about the problem, think for a solution. Ignoring it or running away from the problems will not help you solve them, accepting it is like  half your problems solved.

The real test of a man is known only when he faces hardships and difficulties. Gold shines and glitters not because it is meant to, but because it is tested in fire. Diamond is just an ordinary stone,until and unless the gem cutter works on it to give the shine and shape.So, one must not be disheartened when faced with difficulties, rather muster courage since it is thier real test.

So you have got a problem now, what will you do?cry?worry about it?or curse others?, no you must realize that problems are partially because of you, you have made it big, you have fueled it contionously by worrying about it. life gives you two chopice to look at a problem. Its your choice to be an ant in front of the problem or be an elephant and look at it.

Say it to yourself"Yes, this is my problem, now what am I going to do about this?"write down the solutions you can think of. Be happy life has given you a chance to prove your worth, troubles and problems are experienced by men who callenge.Donot be like a dead leaf in the wind, be like an eagle that goes agaisnt it and not with it.The best way through a problem is through it, endure it and turn it in your favour. When life gives you a lemon, its your choice to make a lemonade or cry about it.