How to know Whether your Indian bride is really beautiful

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Indians are generally very conservative, especially when it comes to Marriage and relationship. Most of us spend years in school, striving hard to build a secure future. Many Indians sacrifice personal life for their career, running a never ending race. We are always in a hurry even when it comes to choosing a life partner. The boy will be thousands of miles away from home working for a foreign company, while parents look for a bride. All the decisions are made fast.... after looking at a couple of photos or web cam chats. This article is written from real experiences of some close friends of mine. If this offends you in any way, all I can say is, "the truth is bitter".

Things You'll Need

  1. Confidence and frankness
  2. A girl close to you -  relative or friend
  3. Determination to wait till you find a perfect mate

Steps

1

Photographs Lie – Photographs can always be manipulated by an expert to make karupamma look like kushboo. Also girls usually show only what they want you to see in a picture. Most pictures usually have just the face stuffed with makeup, taken from an angle which compliments her. In many cases what you see will do no justice to the real appearance. I have seen cases, where pictures are forged by attaching the face of the girl to some other girls or models body. Never!! Never!! Fall for a girl by her pictures.

2

First meeting is not enough – This is when you can know, whether the face you saw in the picture is really hers. However her body is a totally different story. Girls are very conscious about their appearance and features. She knows exactly, what she lacks and what you are looking for. She spends years researching her appearance and finding innovative ways to hide and camouflage. It all comes down to this moment. The life you earned after years of struggle and hardworking – she is going to get it all. All she has to do is make you fall for her in these 10 minutes. So she will make sure, she packages herself nicely, conveniently masquerading behind a Saree.

3

Saree hides what you don't want to see – One of the main reason, girls (particularly the obese ones) prefer Saree, is not because it's traditional. It's because, it is very convenient  to hide all that extra pounds.  An elegantly worn Saree can easily take your eyes of a tire in her mid riff or her huge thighs. You have to always anticipate the possibility that a likeliness to free flowing clothes may be a sign of overweight. There is no way you can see her real figure in a saree or salwar. You have to find ways to make her wear something other than a saree.

4

Western clothes helps – In casual western clothes like jean and T-shirts, you can see her real package. So If she comes in a Saree for the first meeting, let her know that, it may not be appropriate outside India and you would need her to be comfortable in wearing jeans-T shirts. If she becomes defensive or refuses to consider it, then you can be sure that, she is definitely concealing something.  It's time to stop and look for someone else. Trust me, If she has a good figure, she will definitely make sure that you see it.

5

Fat camps are fatal – Many girls prepare for marriage by going to Fat camps to lose weight rapidly. It is never a good idea. After the marriage, she will gain all the pounds back, much faster than the time she spent to lose them. Many Indian girls (the fat ones) are characterized by large hips and very huge thighs. While a crash course or short tem starvation may make them look normal, they will go back to their original state soon after marriage.

So it always helps to check for the old photographs of her. Also since Obesity can be genetic, you can check her brothers, sisters and parents for any signs of future obesity.

6

Gather Intelligence – It's always in your best interest to find and talk to her old friends/classmates. Some one can be sympathetic to you and give you hints about her past.

7

Girls know Girls – A best person to judge a girl is another girl. So get some girls close to you like your sister or friend, when you go to meet her. They can easily see through the disguise and help you see the real her.

Tips

  • When you take your vacation, plan to meet as many girls as you can. It is hard to find the right one.
  • Before going to India, make sure she is open to spend some time with you, like going for a shopping etc. This will give you more time to get to know her better.

Caution

Marriage is a one time occurrence for many Indians. So don't rush or feel pressured by anyone. It is you who has to spend rest of your life with her.

Comments

Girls Thigh

Hai everyone...i am not a fat person anyway,,,but whats wrong if a fat gurl fall in love.. dun tell me that girls with bih thighs and hips are not meant to get marry...guys may look good at first but they will change gradually....guys are always fussy... so its very that it shows that guys are after gurls for their body shape !!!

Many replied to this blog

Many replied to this blog and asked the author about what is the criteria to select a husband. We should understand that this blog talks only about guidelines for selecting a bride.

For the author of this post......

OMG!! You are a sick man. I hope you never get married,because no woman should ever have to bear the curse of being your wife!! Why don't you write an article about Indian men,and how pathetic they are!! You have no right to talk badly about a girl,no matter what she looks like..you impotent SOB! In case anything I've said offended you....just remember..."The truth is bitter"!!!

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I have seen some big wedding parties in India but also in Holland. I prefer the simple ones. (my wedding ceremony took 15 minutes).
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Are Guys like you worthy enough to get married ???

My sincere request to author of this bloody post is please, please don't get married to any Indian girl(esp south indian) .. they may be having fat thighs and wide hips... but at the same time they will also have broad mind to accept all the negatives you have (however smart you are to look at a guy always is a flirt and your post itself is a proof)... What to do with a perfect figure of a guy if his mind is perverted and filthy like yours. You think you are not going to put on weight any day ??? drink continuously for a month and you are out of your shape ... Mind it ! So if you happen to marry a girl with perfect figure I am warning, you she may also have the same mindset like yours ... and will leave you and elope with your friend who looks much handsome than you or she may even ditch you the day you put on weight or meet with an accident get scars on your face. Pretty girls: For your information, My intention is not to abuse you, pretty girls do have good hearts, I am trying to give this so called 'perfect' guy a jhalak that external beauty is not permanent and that appearences may be deceptive. How dare you talk about even their parents. I pity the girl who is going to marry you.

what's wrong with fatty thighs and wide hips?.....

it's all about personal taste(?!). i am a south indian and i would love to see women having fat thighs and wide hips( i am sorry for writing like this). this blog depicts the author's personal view about women.( i don't know what a women or a girl having stick like legs and a thin hip has to offer......nothing... in my opinion.... :):) ).

I think you guys are

I think you guys are overreacting. Blogging is something where a person is free to express his views and expressions. The author has reveled what he feeled about the indian girls. May be he's a bit rude and he should know about the reality that a man should respect other, only then he would consider a man, otherwise he would slowly concverty in to animal ....lol
wat say guys.

The author wrote something

The author wrote something very true, but he saw only one side of the coin...profiles matched through internet or other means do have negative impacts & it's increasing unendingly...You mentioned only about the girls...but wht about the boys/men? Dnt they do the same kind of fraudulent acts with girls whereby so many innocent girls fall a trap to these guys & become victimised ??????? Pls try to be justified & not biased...

Why even go the arranged route?

Sheesh - I think the answer is to not even have an arranged marriage. Why don't you just find a lovely person that you can spend some time getting to know?? Date them, so that they can see you for who you are and vice versa. Oh - and women can just as easily be independent or bread winners, so don't complain about them if you are specifically looking for a timid, bidable girl.

P.S. You never mentioned if your 'friends' were model material or not. It seems like the girls have to be - but what about the guys?

Oh - and girls are under just as much pressure to have great jobs, excellent grades etc.

This guy seems like a total

This guy seems like a total loser... you judge Indian Girls by the size of their thighs and genetic obesity.... how about understanding them for the content in their charter and morality instead of external beauty which is going to wither off with time anyways... shame on you and even so if there are any females in your family! what a disgrace - please cleanse your mind before you misguide further like minded Indian men!

Mr. Darklord - and I am

Mr. Darklord - and I am assuming you are a Mister considering you were talking about women, unless of course you are a really good looking woman who hasn't been picked yet by some foreign settled guy with all the luxury and money who actually picked a fat girl instead of you, and so you are bitter and lashing out at fat women in general..

Considering this is your personal blog, you are entitled to your (highly skewed) opinion, although I must say being Indian, you are aware of how democracy works (rather not works) in our country. So crushing your tiny view of Indians is but natural. I wish to carefully dissect each thing you mentioned, so please bear with my epilogue. Your actual lines are in apostrophes (you know, the little double lines denoting speech).

"Indians are generally very conservative..." - which generation are you still living in, Mr. Darklord? Your opening line is completely flawed, if not backed by statistical evidence of some nature. "...especially when it comes to Marriage and relationship." - Well aren't you too, which is the main reason behind this blog anyway - warning your fellow "men" (again assuming you are straight) to be "conservative" and not casual about picking the right woman?? "Many Indians sacrifice personal life for their career, running a never ending race." - the Indians I know (Gandhi, Naidu, Nehru, Bose, etc.) all sacrificed their personal lives for a good cause, not really a career. If you sacrifice, it usually is for a cause, not your career. If you give up certain things for a career, that's not sacrifice - it's called hard work! "We are always in a hurry even when it comes to choosing a life partner." - really? So you're in a hurry to find a life partner?? "The boy will be thousands of miles away from home working for a foreign company, while parents look for a bride." Oh I see, so you are 'warning' your foreign brothers (again assuming you are straight) about picking girls in India - don't you think, the fact that they were smart enough to go abroad to find jobs or a good school for further education having been through a lot of expense and hard work and research, they would by now know how to pick a bride?! I guess, Mr. Darklord, you need to be more specific with your audience. "All the decisions are made fast.... after looking at a couple of photos or web cam chats." - all decisions? But you mentioned only marriage - what are the other "fast" decisions to be made?

"Things You'll Need: Confidence and frankness..." - I'm sorry, the guys you are referring to (assuming they are all straight) are NOT confident? not frank? and they want to get married?? wow!
"2. A girl close to you - relative or friend..." - well if you have a girl close to you, why do you want to find another one?! if this girl has the courage and patience to be close to you but not marry you, what makes you think someone else will?
"3. Determination to wait till you find a perfect mate..." - ah now this I will probably agree with, but not so much determination as is patience. Finally one sentence that made some sense. See, Mr. Darklord, you are not all that erred, but moving on..

"Photographs Lie..." - don't think "karupamma" (God bless her) is going to be too happy about your post, but anyway.. "Also girls usually show only what they want you to see in a picture..." (I'm sorry was there more you are looking for other than the face??) "..Most pictures usually have just the face stuffed with makeup, taken from an angle which compliments her..." (I'm sorry was there more you are looking for other than the face??) "...In many cases what you see will do no justice to the real appearance." - oh yea I agree with you - makeup doesn't do any woman justice - she is just as beautiful with make up or without! And by the way - what are "cases"? Have you actually conducted some statistically proven research here? But I thought these were views from your friends?!
"...Never!! Never!! Fall for a girl by her pictures." - funny, isn't this the first thing you want to know about the girl anyway?

"First meeting is not enough....masquerading behind a Saree." I haven't stopped laughing since reading this entire paragraph - thank you for glorifying the strength of a woman, really! You say women are smart enough to figure out what you want, which makes women brilliant, and know what they themselves lack, which shows strength of character to overcome weaknesses. And you give women so much credit - 10 mins! Wow - so (straight) Indian men are really THAT STUPID? Oh no no! You are just describing you and your friend's experiences here. Right!

"Saree hides what you don't want to see..." - and you are still looking because..........? "...One of the main reason...no way you can see her real figure in a saree or salwar..." funny, because you still don't want to see what she is covering anyway, so maybe if she just draped a blanket around her that would cover everything well for you since you don't want to see it anyway?? "...You have to find ways to make her wear something other than a saree." - oh! good luck with trying to beat her years of experience in researching her looks!

"Western clothes helps – In casual western clothes like jean and T-shirts, you can see her real package....time to stop and look for someone else." - again, if she is concealing what you deem inappropriate to see, why are you still after her to show it to you anyway?? you confuse me... and Jeans/T-shirt will show you what exactly about the "package" - considering they are considered completely concealing in lands other than India... mind elaborating here? "....Trust me, If she has a good figure, she will definitely make sure that you see it." - oh right! because she is there for a modeling employment, not for a marriage proposal, and not that she is after all an Indian brought up in the tradition of this country which is the Sari - mind you! don't let the Ram Sena catch you saying this... I wouldn't want to miss that opportunity, you know..

"Fat camps are fatal..." - awww, now isn't that kind of you to say they are fatal, so you really are looking out for Indian women. "...Many Indian girls (the fat ones) are characterized by large hips and very huge thighs." hmmm just hips and thighs, the very things that you apparently can't see in a sari but still know about... confusing again... and what are fat men characterized by? I wasn't aware of the categories so please enlighten us. "So it always helps to check for the old photographs of her... " now see, Mr. Darklord, you confuse your readers again! You warned your brothers of NOT looking at photographs and now you are saying go back to the very same thing?? So which one is it - believe the pictures or not?? "...Also since Obesity can be genetic, you can check her brothers, sisters and parents for any signs of future obesity." - oh so it's not really her fault, it is genetic, but still you reject her because........? And how do you suppose checking her family will generate "future signs" - can you, Mr. Darklord, actually see into the future? wow! What a great gift you must possess! I'm sure medical science would love to know all about genetics from your insightful foresight, considering it has taken them years to figure it out!

"Gather Intelligence – It's always in your best interest to find and talk to her old friends/classmates. Some one can be sympathetic to you and give you hints about her past." - aha! so you are now a private investigator too - considering you are talking to her friends, shouldn't they be giving you true facts rather than "hints"?? You may not have contacted the actual "friends" if they are giving you hints - hmmm, shoddy investigative work there, Sherlock.. err Darklord.

"Girls know Girls – A best person to judge a girl is another girl..." duh-uh! No surprise there, coming from reading this post anyyway. "...So get some girls close to you like your sister ..." Oh so you do have a sister who will have suitors doing the exact same thing you are advising, to her tomorrow - interesting little vicious cycle you have going there now, don't you.

"...Tips: * When you take your vacation, plan to meet as many girls as you can. It is hard to find the right one...." - oh right! that's the reason guys go on vacations - so they can meet girls whose phtographs they have seen on the Internet or through the Webcam or the ones their mummies collected for them...right, got it.
"....* Before going to India, make sure she is open to spend some time with you, like going for a shopping etc. This will give you more time to get to know her better...." - shopping?? you want to go shopping??!!

"...Caution: Marriage is a one time occurrence for many Indians. So don't rush or feel pressured by anyone. It is you who has to spend rest of your life with her...." and she spends the rest of her life with.........?

"This article is written from real experiences of some close friends of mine." - wonder why the friends didn't muster up the courage to write about it themselves - or are they being "conservative" and thus do not want to look foolish, because they DO want to be married some day, and so by posting these views they would come across as 'not' eligible for marriage as is your case currently? In a way I commend you for being honest about your opinion, but you might want to open your mind to reality before writing what your friends think, if you want people to look up to what you say and actually respect you for it. Ultimately, Mr. Darklord, straight or gay, guys worth their balls are the ones that end up with love in its true form - fat or phat.

And if this is, in fact, your own opinion, then I have nothing but pity for you and can't help feeling sorry for you and your friends. After all, the truth "IS" bitter...

An Indian.

I think you are the "fat

I think you are the "fat chick with a long tounge" that he is talking about. By saying this, I am not supporting what he wrote. It's actually a matter of personal choice and preference. some of what is said in his post are outright offensive to some people. but that doesn't mean its totally false. everyone thinks about these things. but no one talks out loud.

In that case, you are as

In that case, you are as hypocritical as all the others. I actually commended him for coming clean - you should read the post before bad-mouthing someone... besides, I am as much an Indian guy as he is.. go figure.

Also, I don't recall a

Also, I don't recall a reference to "long tongue"... are you coming out with your own blog then? I'm surprised guys in this day and age are still looking for brides based on only physical structure, not brains, if she will take care of you and your family, support you, be able to support herself, gel with the family, be comfortable with the guy, etc. etc... but as you say, some things never change.

God bless all of you..

To girls: Mind you, even if

To girls: Mind you, even if these successful career guys are miles away making their career, well, they are doing just that! Put these guys in a desert and they might still make a career! Chances are they have never looked a girl in the eye, have always hung out with male buddies (equally pitiable, from their own Indian diaspora), and equally unsatisfying as being unsatisfied.

Breaking the ice.

After reading this blog and comments , I could not restrain myself from writing. :)
Anyways, first of all, this is a matter of personal choice. People (both males and females) prefer to have a partner with good physical appearance. If this is false then you probably have not noticed the increase in gym/spa culture. Desiring a wife with beautiful body is not at all wrong.
Having said that, this blog in particular, provides guidelines to select a bride and not actually adheres to its title 'How to know Whether your Indian bride is really beautiful'. Points made by the author are derogatory and raw in terms of explanation. Author should have taken care with choice of words to convey his intentions.

Many replied to this blog and asked the author about what is the criteria to select a husband. We should understand that this blog talks only about guidelines for selecting a bride. Hence, it would be irrelevant to ask for a selection criteria for groom at this place.

@the author

SO what exactly do you look like? Maybe you should put up a picture of urself with this post rather than that of a pretty looking Sari clad girl. This entire page should be black marked. Its just been written to make loser Indian men feel good about themselves.

this is foolish

this is ridiculous first thing tosee is the heart not the personality i think that you dont have any sisters in your family if they are then you say the same things to the person who is being married to your sister will you dare to do so
you presentation is not correct i think you want to say sbout those who are trying to cheat your emphasis should be on that point but not on the whole society may be i think you need more practice in writing such articles

No doubt, you are just an

No doubt, you are just an a******. I sincerely hope you do not destroy someone else's life with the kind of thinking you have about girls and life-partner.

Be Cool guys...

Chillax guys...look if you are worth of the other rather than if other is worthy of you...:)

The guy who wrote this article is a SICK man

I think the guy who wrote this recipe is a SICK and FRUSTRATED man. I am a guy, but neither I or any of the friends that I know, think like this guy thinks. Moderator: Pls do NOT allow such threads to be published !!

Let us grow up...please

A very chauvinist and superficial and so called f*****g traditional...
grow up india..grow up... try to understand what a true partner ship means...........I feel proud of being indian for some reasons.. but for some reasons i hate myself for belonging to that country...one of them is our social structure and the way we perceive the idea of man-woman primary relationship.. its way too mechanical and i think stupid as well..

Well. I have a different

Well. I have a different story to tell you. Nowadays, the boys and the boys' parents tell many stories but actually in reality they are far from truth. Also some of the boys hold one side view and opinion as to how the girl should behave after marriage. They all want highly educated girls and at the same time they want these highly educated girls to behave like village girls. Many a guy hold the view that the girls are meant to be in the kitchen after marriage and also raise the family. These guys advice the girls that they want them to be 'homely'. That is why nowadays many guys dont find gals in the prime of their 'youth'

Mast idea hai baap

Arrey bidu kya baat hai...mast idea de diya tune..
but instead of jeans n t-shirt how about panty and bra..this is perfect to see what girls assets are really....hmm..but then u may say...even in bra they may hide...well yes..there is always possibility that they may have breast implants..plastics....then what shall we do to check that ? Touch therapy ?
Mast idea de kuch baap..sahi hai bidu..tu to Kurkure wala hai. hahaha

you are my brother..... :)

jadu ki chappi ....you are my brother.....ha hah ha ha...

wtf who says Indian girlsr fat not all.

well WTF!!++ is this i didnt understand,in western countries a 6ft can get married to a handicapped or even 4ft [nt Indian man or woman]cause love based here in physical attraction or appearence like for some desperate man like the one who wrote this article.go to north India you will see sexy & good figure girls as hell.even now a days american prefering to marry an Indian educated girl who looks good & mingle & stand to their society without say no to learn & adapt a new culture with mixing her own.
i have a friend in New Delhi she was very attractive had lot of marriage proposal from abroad her marriage was fixed with an South Indian Guy But month before her wedding one american dude proposed her,she said she is engaged waiting for her 3years old finance who is about to come with her marriage daimond ring & her & his side are settled to get them married & everything is arranged for marriage dates are fixed,but american dude keep attracting her,sending her emails,telling her what is his fault if he fell in love & her finance did not claim her in 3years & why she can't give him one chance to proov his love & all.the girl said this all to her finance they made fun of that american man,both said what a fool american but as the days passes in two months the american man started dating this Indian girl came Indian in one month for ten times,made her wear his big thich shiny crystel daimond ring,girl was confused what to do,cause now she has no feeling for her finance & as a old phrase "everything is love & war"she fell in love with that american sexy handsome dude,pink skin strong body broad sexy sexy shoulders,uhhhhh.who stole her heart.but she decided to be honest she called her dad told"dad started never come to my home,if you marry an american black spanish guy,ok one supporter less,called sisters they said f***you chopped our nose if we will see you kill you wow,now this indian girl was wow so fuc..d from her family all doors closed,she thought as her ex finace is her best friend he will understand she called him Ireland & said "can you come for web chat & i want to tell you something open & straight rather hidding & dreaming long ass future shit".the guy said sure baby yes give me ten minutes needto restart my laptop.both came online,girl has tears in her eyes,cause she was guilty too,said straight to her finance "I Am Sorry But I Don't Know Whether You Will Forgive Or Not I Am In Love With Someone He Said Whom She Said The Same American Man We Were Making Fun Of That Day He Is The One Who Stole My Heart & Now There Is No Way I Can Live Without Him"offcourse her finance was burning but he was emotional also,he try to suicide first but after two days hosptialization he came out & thought of stopping his woman,but when love speaks in mind,body heart & soul GOD&MOTHERGODESS**helps to find a way,that Indian & American Black Spanish Dude Got Finally Got Married.for to make them divorce this Indian dude went so much level down that he went to her residence told "he wants to congratulate the newly wedded & even he is sad that he can not make to marry his woman but he feels good for them,he asked them to use the laptop to check the emails,when they were busy talking he stole their sexy pictures which the new wedded clicked from their laptop camera for their ownself like most of the hot couples do for their private album to vew,well no offence here cause its 21st centuary most of the people in American even Indians i think even in India there would be couple who will click some of the pictures only for their eyes not for people.that man took the pictures through forward to his email account & next day he called the girl,if she will not divorce & marry him he will publise she said a mad desperate man only will talk like this,how can one leave her husband after two three days of wedding when we have already fight to marry each other to whole world.the mental man went to her email accounts like he already hacked all of her emails passwords everything which the couple lately realise.started sending their private pictures & writing dirty emails to the whole world.on her name.& making blogs & profile on that girls husband name & putting material of nudity of them,telling that couples make porns,the couple said if they can spend thousand of dollar travelling & make this wedding happen than if they have to make pornos why they can not hire someone beautiful who they can sale rather putting their ugly asses & faces laughing like mad,why they need to click pictures through laptop camrea why can't good camera to handle.well the South Indian guy did everything to break them the marriage,but that girl & american man stand next to each other,complaint & report to the embassy & cyber.two of the guys who were invlved caughten up by police & got beaten so bad.like wow.one nigerian was also involved whom the police beaten.the south Indian on the one hand sending those pictures to the world & girls parents on the same side he was telling girls father"uncle i have forgiven her ,this is her american husband who is sending her nude pictures ,please tell her to leave that man & marry me please,crying& all",her family thought the American dude is the one who was doing but in actual the guy from south,atlast the south Indian guy made a team with all the men's wants to marry her & whom she has denied to marry for some reason,number 1 a man from behrain whose name was Salesh...whom she used to like & it was a phony friendship,& girl never met alone with that man ever in life the guy fell for that girl& girl told straight she will only marry when he will be able to accept her as she is & also she will prefer to settle European countries rather middle east or any conservative muslim country,guy agry for that,but slowly slowly the guy started behaving abnormal,calling every second,can not let her work in her office,even calling her office making her hell,sending her friends money telling if they will give her private information where when what time she comes & go to whoe she talks than he will give them money thought western union,friends started playing, early in the morning when she excercising he is calling telling she is in party,than he makes her phone complete engaged so as a result she has to attended his call & whatever calls comes in call waiting she can talk ,but this man was limited to only thought about the girl that every Indian girl should not talk to any man no one is brother father no collogues like that,one day girl told she need no help from him no fiancial nothing cause she can not marry a man who doubts her every minute even who has not even know her so well,even she walking on roads he will send people behind her,one day she took home delvery from mac donald guy ,he immediatly called & told oh! you fucking with a man on bike,,,girl told him"bstard retard pathetic bitch boy shit & spit on you & your low grade man thinking fuck you never call me back ever".but that man never stops.
so another man who use to be the girl well wisher before her marriage was a mid age uncle types ,who use to tell that she is a street smart girl,on the same side girl knows that this midage uncle types man is a man who inside his heart very cheap bicth old bastard....he will call himself...oh!i am young boy.....he can't even speak proper english.& he knew about her enagegment with south Indian guy,this old man as a girl who was his bed mate,he always try to be shaddy & tells oh!you are a very good girl who is bold but at the same time knows her limit the moment the southy send pictures & all being two face double standard people unfortuanatly in my country most of us our like that...when it comes to real support nobody shown & protest......
these three man started kneeting trapps for that couple who got knewly married by claling names ...pornograhr ,money makers adultry makers & even that girl has given money to man to get married & so much that which can makes a normal naive Indian woman go suicide but this indian was strong ass she fought the whole world with her man,complaint the cyber,cyber told her....even a woman has intimate relationship with any man no man in this world has right to publish her & disgrace her....if we catch that guy we will be beating not only his ass but break his bones legs hands not beable to walk straight ever on his own feet.
plus you people are married couple it was your private thingy not his dad's property,you make your nude pictures put on your bed room walls or look it all day night that is your thoughts & life style not his donship that he will disgrace any woman.
when this thing doesnot work than he took money power shit .
he balmed girl getting money from abroad.
girl told she was someone's girl friend & if ex lover sent her anything as a gift she is not liable to that cause she did not ask he sent with his own wish not that she forced.
if he lend the money then where is the paper work.that he has conditions,he sent western union which was a gift from one man to his lover.& that also not thousand dollar
it was just $50 to $200 somtime max.which is like a chewingum & a price of one perfume to that girl of high expenses.
wow they are so sexy couple.sexy slim fair girl model look,& that man like ronaldo with fair pink skin.wish i can have someone like her.
regards so stop calling bad about Indian Girl,as far as i know they are secy not all fat if someone is fat she can make her slim there are hell lota item to get slim & offocourse deiting also.anyways when you love someone truly you can not make out good & the difference between bad.so just believe in True Love Guys& keep falling.*GODBESS*you all*ALLELUIA**AMEN*

Crap Article

Wats the big deal if the girl is fat??
Are all the guys absolutely perfect or wat..
There r lot of other stuff in marriage u need to be cautious abt except for her fatness..
Does the only characteristics a girl have is her beauty???
Then all guys shud be super intelligent..bt they r surely not..
Indians are staying behind because of such backward mentality

no........

there are many guys including me who didn't buy the author's views.it's incorrect to lash out all of us like this...

you are just another male

you are just another male chauvinistic pig with a huge sense of entitlement and self.

INDIAN BRIDES HAVE LOST THEIR CHARM

How many Indian woman use the net?

Indian Brides seem to have lost their charm since the Internet came into existence

I myself have been on net since 1999 as i use it to communicate with relatives and some selected friends, and over the years i have noticed that Indian woman have become so desperate on line especially in chat rooms. Well of course Indian woman are human after all and they do have their desires and passions and needs which i guess is not given by their husbands due to the match making of their marriage.

And at the same time the Indian men and woman finds solace on net by having a net lover, a close someone in the virtual world.
So in short the internet has been of great help both to the male and female. Most Indian men and women learn from the net.

While their husbands are busy at work the wives are flirting around on net wholesale and while the wife thinks that her husband is busy at work, her husband is also having a damn good time on net with his net lover or net pet.

Well since both of them have their own secrets i guess their lives would go on normally not unless they get entangled up with their virtual pets and forget the real world.

And i feel that there would be more of cyber marriages than match marriages in the years to come.

BRAVE NEW WORLD

Isn't it strange that in these times of mind boggling changes when we dont know what new invention will overwhelm us with the next spin of the globe, we can think of nothing beyond traditional relationships between man and woman? Why must it always be men who are the predators and women the more than willing prey? Cant women prey upon men, do they not have the same urges that possess men? I think its high time to redefine sexual relationships, to break the barriers imposed by class, creed, color, age and even gender. If we have accepted the developments on all frontiers of science and technology, medicine communication etc., it is only logical that these developments should impinge on our social behaviour, which includes sexual behaviour. Time has come not to think of cyber marriages, but to abolish the concept of marriages. Society is no longer the isolated homogeneous group that inveneted the institution of marriage, the whole world is now a village, one society. Education, cultures, cuisine, fashion, music, games and sports, everything is gradually becoming more and more similar. No longer will a guy from the far east be a fish out of water with a girl from the far west. People are travelling all across the globe for a living, and have to stay offshore for months together, often at different places. In this scenario, nothing could be more stupid than having a fixed home with a wife waiting for her man to return. And yet, during all this time both of them will suffer the pangs of lust for a feel of the opposite sex. So, what we want now is a marriage free world where sex will be practiced freely by informed choice of the partners. Childbirth should be very carefully controlled at the desire of either of the parents to have one, with the consent of the other. The bulk of the births can be confined to artificial insemination and incubation in labs, in order to maintain a healthy population balance. Governments across the world should set up excellent facilities for the rearing and upbringing of the children who would be the future citizens of this world. Increasingly, homes would be doing without real kitchens, there would be food courts at every corner where one could walk in and goff on production of some sort of identity.
Wow! what a sexy world that will be!!!

Hello, always keep in mind

Hello,
always keep in mind that whichever country you live, Marriage should be a one time business, man.

I can feel few people have

I can feel few people have explained their real experience.
I have to tell something.
Marriage is one time business, I accept.
It should not turn to a one side business :( .
Whatever beauty may the girl or boy have/had.
Certain other issues also slightly should remind us.
The issues can be anything.
The most and the very most important thing we require is 'understanding'.
I found a reply mentioning the human race.
Either from East/West/North/South girls r same / boys r same.

If we start apply conditions for life
there ll be never ending discussions.

May be , suggestions come from various life experience
we can just take those words .,
when we realise it ., im sure

THERE IS SOMETHING OTHER THAN APPEARANCE
WHICH I LOOKED , STILL LOOKING , YET TO REACH.

Remember ., there r people who still have not seen the sunrise ;)

HAPPY LIFE

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