How to hook up with girls !!
Probably, the most common topic, yet it seems the most difficult when you go to execute them. The key is again that the opposite sex is just another human-being as you are. She does have the same likes and dislikes. You just have to harp on the right strings and wait for the Cupid to say BINGO! All it needs is a little patience and the right intuitions.
Things You'll Need
No, you do not have to be Tom Cruise to hook-up with your sweetheart. You can just be yourself and win whoever you want. Just remember you are the best to do this.
I would aim at the girl in your work-place or your educational institute or any club where you get to see each other pretty often. To start with, its really difficult to hook-up in a single encounter. So, if you go for the KAL HO NA HO-SHAH RUKH KHAN-6 DIN LADKI IN- scheme, trust me, you are heading for sheer disaster.It takes time to melt a girls heart.
Steps
INTRODUCTION
The first step has to be a decent introduction where you should be absolutely humble and would try to project your profile as just-another-regular-guy. Try to be friendly with everybody around her and do not shower all youe attention over her. Try to find out the common interests you share and start discussing on them. Thus try to spend as much time as possible discussing on different things. Enquire from her friends about her but never ask her anything. Try to build the confidence in her so that she can count on you as a person with whom she can share her thoughts. Being humourous on a few occasons is really handy.
CONFIDENCE BUILDING
Now, that you have bagged her friendship, take her to restaurants,cafes and sometimes to movies. Try to discuss things that are pretty close to you and at the same time catchy.Do not forget to mention that she is the only one with whom you feel like sharing these things. When she says something listen to her very patiently and answer rationally. You may gift her small things but do not bestow her with all the riches of the world.
PROPOSAL
Probably, since you have watched so many movies I do not have to explain you how to say those three golden words. But what I need to mention is about the ambience in which you are going to throw your proposal. Its better to take her somewhere special or in some cafe(in a secluded corner) where a soothing music would enrich the effect. Do not start straight away with the topic but give her a hint that you are trying to convey something for a long time. Girls are exceptionally good in understanding these things. If she is interested, she would urge you to shoot. Otherwise, you linger a few more weeks. Start it very casually, mentioning the importance of her presence in your life. Then mention that for the last few days you realised that probably you have a hitch on her.Now that you can not resist any more and if she is fine with the relationship, you wuold like to propose her.
I think your part is done and hope for your success.
Tips
Do think that she is someone very special to you. You will see that you can perform your task naturally. As, if she gets to know your intensions, she carry loads of attitude with her. So stay cool. Talk normally, just the way you say to any other being. Try to carry a smile in your face. Be humouruos on occasions.
Caution
1. Haste is waste.
2. Do not loose your temper in front of her. Try to be as polite and as genial as possible.
3. Do not be rigid on any topic. Show that you are flexible and at the same time quite adjusting.
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Comments
Good points..
Most of the time, i find the guys really nervous and not very confident about what they do. The simple trick is you got to keep a cool head and not try very hard to please others. Be yourself and let your partner appreciate you for whom you really are.
Awesome ideas any ways.
cheers
good job
Often it is found that the girls need more verification to choose thier
counter part than the boys do. In that situation just mention the steady flow of the present relationship, if possible try to improve it as time goes on. If she have started sharing her's own experience and problems with u by her own initiative, then this indicate your current status is becoming heathy. Then take a good opportunity to speak the three golden words as stated by thenameisray.
This is rudiculous
Indian dating is so GAY.
1. You want to be yourself and find someone who likes you for who you are.
2. Let things happen naturally.
3. How can you say someone I LOVE YOU so quicky. Are you saying this just to get into her pants?
The simple trick is you got
The simple trick is you got to keep a cool head and not try very hard to please others. Be yourself and let your partner appreciate you for whom you really are.
Pls don't post these kind of tips
These love or friendship should blossom naturally between opposite sex to became true and long lasting.. These kind of tips would only be a short success.. Please try to avoid posting like these tips..
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