How to choose a gift for girl friend or fiancee

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You are sure to get into a  dilemma when it comes to choosing an appropriate gift for your girl friend or fiancée.  You have to understand her likes, dislikes, hobbies etc to choose a gift to impress her.  You have to also take into consideration the seriousness of your relationship.  Finally your gift will depend upon the occasion: Valentine’s day, friendship day, Birthday, or maybe its just a casual gift.

Steps

1

If it is for her Birthday -  you could get a string of pearls, a bouquet, a bottle of good perfume, a box of chocolates, a book by her favorite author, a small potted plant (if she likes gardening) or a dress ( if you know her preference of color and size).

2

For Valentine’s day-  A bouquet of flowers, chocolates, a CD of romantic songs, or a small heart shaped token of love would be ok for a girl friend.  If you are engaged, you need to give an expensive and special gift to her to make her feel special.
 
A lavish gift could be:

  • a piece of jewelry
  • a digital camera
  • a romantic night out, like a candle light dinner at an expensive restaurant
  • an expensive photo (digital) frame with a photograph of you both, looking jubilant  on your engagement day
  • a saree or dress that would impress her
3

If you are buying her a gift for her success in an examination or interview, or for securing a job – you could buy her a mobile, a trendy hand bag, or a book on how to cruise along smoothly with the boss and colleagues in the new job.

4

Even a friendship day would deserve a gift. If it is a girlfriend, you could buy her a friendship day card, with a friendship band and quotation stand on friendship. But if you are serious about her or you are already engaged, offer to celebrate at a fast food joint with her friends or siblings. You could also plan for a picnic, with friends from both sides.

5

If it is just to prove that you care for her – general greeting cards which articulate your feelings for her should do the trick.  A small token gift (like a heart shaped- key chain, or  quotation stand) can also could be added.
You could also arrange for a lavish party (if your budget permits) to celebrate the occasion for which you are buying her a gift.

Tips

  • Consult her friends or siblings to know more about her likes and dislikes lest you cut a sorry figure by choosing the wrong color or item.
  • Keep talking to her parents to know about her taste and also be in their good books.

Caution

  • Don’t buy her a deodorant, or mouth freshener as it would send the wrong signal to her.
  • Do not gift a dog or a caged bird, unless you are absolutely sure that she wants them.
  • Do not buy books like ‘ how to understand your boy friend or fiancé’, “ how to make up when you have a tiff with your BF.” Etc, there is a possibility of her misunderstanding you.
  • It is really a tough task to select a suitable gift for the person you want to impress. Take ample precautions, not to fumble by choosing the wrong gift.

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