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COCKY AND FUNNY- Women are attracted to two types of men

• "alpha male types( guys who seems most at ease with women)"
• sense of humor (guys who can twist what they say to make it sound funny and attractive)

You should always act in a calm and composed way to attractive women, make fun of them ('coz she might be getting the same old comments on her complexion, earrings etc. from strangers and guess what she thinks oh! thanks I know that ) , laugh at yourself and create a friendly environment that other people feel like popping into BUT THE RULE IS Cocky + Funny at the same time.

MISTAKE EVERY GUY MAKES- OK, the attractive girls know they are attractive and they try to avoid as many guys as they can so that they can find the exceptional ones (not taking about the looks here ). Lot of guys expect too much in the first meeting and it stays in the back of their mind so they act in the same way meaning a bit nervous, sweating(and the worst forgot to wear their favorite perfume) and keep trying to show "I'm a nice guy". On the other hand, girls act like they don't have nothing to loose, act in "laid-back" manner. They know for sure you'll try to be too nice to her, do someting to impress her and so on. Don't do that, show her that this is who I'm, not nervous, calm and totally in my own skin.

BODY LANGUAGE- As 90% of the communication between male and female is nonverbal, so our body language plays a vital role. Most of the girls or I should say all of the girls know how important it is to have your own space. Ok, let's take an example, you ignor your friends because of a girl you are talking to, gives her an idea that you are a kind of guy who is untrustworthy. They might be friends with you since you were a kid and when you see them and ran into them, it says, I give equal importance to my relations and increases your chances of being a friends with that girl.

BE YOURSELF AND BE NATURAL- Usually, girls are preety good at this thing. They can tell you when you are trying to be someone else. They like the guys who are natural means who say what's on their mind (Don't try to feel too nice), how they are feeling ( Don't try to act too nice ) and what they expect ("You're right because you said so"). The purpose of your converstaion with a girl should be creating an ATTRACTION rather than the feeling of acceptance by her as a friend, boyfriend etc. If she like's you she won't mind giving you her e-mail or phone no. just try to act the way you act around your friends.

WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES- Can't make your own decisions, Can't act like a leader rather follow others and being too possessive to her. Then I'm sorry my friend you are acting like a "WUSSY". Wondering what to do, simple, stop that right now. Take your own decisions and stand by them (For examle, Look I got this test, exam, assignmnet due this week so won't be able to make up to movie or dinner, she'll appreciate that believe me). Don't call her too often, ask her where she had been all the day after class, who was that just called you...Hey signs of a "WUSSY" :-(

HOW WOMEN INTREPRET WHAT YOU SAY- If you say "Do you have a boyfriend ?", she might think Oh god! another needy. If you say "Give me you number, I want to take you out may be for dinner, movie, play etc.", she might think he's so predictive. The problem here is not asking for a number or  an e-mail but the second part, telling her why you want those contact details. Let her think about the second part, just take her number or e-mail and walk away saying it was pleasure talking to you.
Happy Dating :-)
Thanks to David DeAngelo for enlightening how not to be a "WUSSBAG".